July 26, 2019 - the day my life took a major turn. It's the day I realized (not by my own volition) that the man I was thinking would be my forever suddenly decided that (again) I'm not...2.5 years of life, with age creeping up, gone in a conversation that lasted less than 10 minutes. [...]
Category: dating
You can’t handle the truth.
I was told by one of my bff's this weekend that I need to write again...so, here I am, making time that I don't have to, once again, bitch about the singlehood status. I feel like I'm on fucking repeat so I'm gonna shake this up a bit and get real about what it's REALLY [...]
A moment of silence.
New job? Check. Back in the dating world? Check. Feel like I doused myself in gasoline and ran through a field of dried brush? Check. Metaphor getting lost in my sleep-deprivation? Fuck. Yes. You know what though? I like it. And life has just taken a turn for the incredible. I woke up at [...]
Road Trip Feels.
Funny thing about solo road trips...there's a LOT of time for introspective thought, contemplation and basically sortin' shit out. This is probably why I avoid drives over 3 hours and have a fuck-ton of audiobooks to distract me from self-reflection. No one wants a raw look at themselves. Most of my ugly cries have been [...]
Sometimes indecision IS a decision.
I alluded to some 'heart-wrenching' (maybe over exaggerated with that term but whatevs) dating situations in my last post and thought, hell...if I'm opening up a flesh wound, may as well dig all the way to the artery and bleed out. There is a pretty profound lesson found in each of the scenarios so, maybe, [...]
HOW A STRONG WOMAN SEES A RELATIONSHIP — TYPICALLY FROM AFAR….
Any woman who is strong, independent and speaks her mind (normally) has it rough in this dating game...Crazy bitches have given "women" a bad rep -- chicks who go all psycho because they can't keep their neediness under wraps are adding to reasons why we 'normal' gals have to over analyze and keep in check [...]
I MAY BE SARCASTIC AF, BUT SOMETIMES I GET THE FEELS
Ah, the time of year where the culmination of all the experiences gathered in 2016 start to play over in my head...I wish I could say I'm an eternal optimist. I mean, those people have their shit together and seem to have good things happen to them all the time...maybe I'll try it on for [...]
WHY I DON’T BELIEVE IN SECOND CHANCES…STRIPES, TIGERS AND SHIT.
Ah, it's been a minute...I've missed it here. Just life has been so fucking busy that any moment I have to myself is spent on a bottle of wine and a hot bath...Let's just say, life took an interesting (and awesome) turn four weeks ago and I'm back to being in a good place. Any [...]
YOU ASKED, SO HERE GOES…(BONUS CLE ON DATING WOMEN LIKE ME…AKA, STRONG AF)
Ok, ok, ok....I can't tell you how many requests I've received for a "dating" post lately. 100% disclosure -- it's cuz I've not necessarily been on any dates for quite some time. But, there were a couple. Since going at dating the "old fashioned" way (i.e. offline), I've eliminated about 88% of the fuck-tards that [...]
MY HIATUS AND SHIT…THE SADNESS AND MADNESS OF IT ALL
In memory of Naya, a.k.a. "The Best Dog in the World." July 30, 2001 - Sept 8, 2016 I know I'm overdue for a good post. But life has been fairly rough. Last week I had to make the hardest decision of my life and lay to rest my soul-mate. Naya was literally the best [...]
My Sarcastic Life 