So. About life…

Yea.  No one hijacked my blog...it's really me...I feel a little guilty that I haven't been able to update this space for a while...Since March life has most literally been non-stop.  New job has me crankin' out crazy hours and by the time I get home, I truly have nothing creative left to give to [...]

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You can’t handle the truth.

I was told by one of my bff's this weekend that I need to write again...so, here I am, making time that I don't have to, once again, bitch about the singlehood status.  I feel like I'm on fucking repeat so I'm gonna shake this up a bit and get real about what it's REALLY [...]

Shit people don’t say.

I realize my posts have been few and far between.  This new job has me jumping through hoops...and I love every second of it.  With all these fires (both professional and personal) I've been trying to contain these days, I've learned some very valuable lessons in not only patience but in the art of picking one's [...]

A moment of silence.

New job?  Check.  Back in the dating world?  Check.  Feel like I doused myself in gasoline and ran through a field of dried brush?  Check.  Metaphor getting lost in my sleep-deprivation?  Fuck. Yes. You know what though?  I like it.  And life has just taken a turn for the incredible.   I woke up at [...]

Road Trip Feels.

Funny thing about solo road trips...there's a LOT of time for introspective thought, contemplation and basically sortin' shit out.  This is probably why I avoid drives over 3 hours and have a fuck-ton of audiobooks to distract me from self-reflection.  No one wants a raw look at themselves.  Most of my ugly cries have been [...]

Demolition.

So I'm taking inventory....finally.  There have been a few people I personally know that I have peripherally kept in my life for one reason or another.  Some date back to the stone age (i.e. when I was younger) and some are more recent acquaintances.  I've kept one tiny, minute portion of my pinky finger on [...]

Sometimes indecision IS a decision.

I alluded to some 'heart-wrenching' (maybe over exaggerated with that term but whatevs) dating situations in my last post and thought, hell...if I'm opening up a flesh wound, may as well dig all the way to the artery and bleed out. There is a pretty profound lesson found in each of the scenarios so, maybe, [...]

2017 MANIFESTO…CAN YOU SAY ‘MANIFESTO’ WITHOUT ALERTING THE NSA? TOO LATE…I NEED THE SITE HITS ANYWAY

First and foremost, yes, that is my quote...make that shit viral.  And, yes, that is me...I have the uncanny ability to stage shots with my iPhone and Apple Watch...Secondly, it's a very good segway quote into 2017 for me...I'm currently sitting on a beach in Roatan, Honduras, glass of wine by my side, watching the [...]

HOW A STRONG WOMAN SEES A RELATIONSHIP — TYPICALLY FROM AFAR….

Any woman who is strong, independent and speaks her mind (normally) has it rough in this dating game...Crazy bitches have given "women" a bad rep -- chicks who go all psycho because they can't keep their neediness under wraps are adding to reasons why we 'normal' gals have to over analyze and keep in check [...]